JODIYA UPAR SE BAN KR AATI HAI – Deepika..

Hello friends,
Mera naam deepika hai. Baat us smay ki hai jb main 11th class mein thi. Meri coaching mein mere saath ek ldka padta tha uska naam NITIN tha. Main middle class family se thi but mere papa khule dimag k the. Unhone mujhse bs ye kha tha ki beta ab tum bdi ho gyi ho galt raste pr kbhi mt jana bas itna yaad rkhna ki agr tumhe koi ldka pasand aata hai to main shadi kr dunga bs ldka hamri cast ka hona chahiye…
Aaj bhi yad hai wo din 9 sep 2014 ..
Wo red colur ki shirt phne huye aaya tha mujhe purpose krne…
Bs itna ki main khuch bhi ghuma phira k nhi kahna chahta bs itna ki I LOVE U …
Agr tum bhi mujhe psand krti ho to ye card rakh lo.. main andar hi andar usko psand to krti thi but main 11 th class mein thi.mere dimag mein ye chal rha tha ki agr main abhi se in sb mein pd jaugi to DR kaise banugi..
Pr mera dil kh rha tha ki main ha bol du.pta nhi ye smay dubara ayega ya nhi…jisko main pasand krti hu whi mujhe I Love u bol rha hai…
Pr maine aakhe band kri to mere papa ka chehra samne tha jo ki chahta tha ki meri beti dr bane…
Maine khuch der soch kr usko mana kr diya or wo chala gya….
Dusre din jb main coaching phuchi to meri nazre usi ko dhun rhi thi but wo nhi aaya..
Mujhe bhut bura lg rha tha ..ki maine ye kya kiya..
Apne pyar ko kho diya..
Kafi smy beet gya….
Acctuly hum log ek hi colony k bhi the….
To is vajah se colony ki hi ek shadi mein mile….
Date thi 11 feb 2015 …
9 sep 2014 k baad direct is din…..
Maine jaise hi usko dekha mere dil ki dhakan tej ho gyi…main andar hi andar itna khush thi ki kya btayu…
Wo bhi mujhe chupk chupk dekh rha tha ….kabhi kahi se or kabhi or kahi se….
Nitin ki bahen meri friend thi…to wo apni sis ko khuch bhi dene k bahane bar bar wha aata tha.
Kahani mein twist jb aa gya jb mere papa ne ye sb dekh liya ki jaha main wha wo….
Tb wo gussa gye or usko kafi ulta sidha bolne lge ..
Maine kafi mana kiya ki aisa nhi hai pr wo na mane or bole maine khud dekha hai…
Papa gussa k mujhe lekr wha se chale aaye.main pure raste yhi sochte aayi ki kaash main na aati ye sb na hota.itne din k baad maine use dekha tha kitna khush thi main.hey bhagwan ye kya ho gya….
Maine socha tha ek baar to main use kho chuki hu pr is baar nhi but is baar to aisa ho gya ki kbhi na shi hoga….
Dheere dheere smay beet rha tha ek to mere 12th k exam or upr se uski bhi chinta…
Pr maine ye sb chor kr apne exam pr dhyan diya.
12th paas krk maine PHYSIOTHERAPY k course mein admition le liya or scoty se aane jane lgi.
Nya colega nye log the but meri nazre usi ko dhunti thi… kafi ldko ne prapose kiya but koi accha hi nhi lgta tha usk alava.
Ek din main college se wapas aa rhi thi ki ek bike mere scooty k paas aa gyi.maine bagal mein dekha to main hairan ho gyi wo Nitin tha mujhe khuch samaj nhi aa rha tha …
Mere saath meri ek friend thi or wo akele tha
Usne mujhse kha kya tumhe yaad hai aaj koun si date hai.maine bola kyu…aaj kya hai to usne kha tumhe nhi yaad hai aaj 9 SEP hai.aaj hi k din maine tumhe ek saal phle prapose kiya tha..
Main aaj dubara tumse puchta hu ki tumne kya socha hai…mujhe khuch smjh na aa rha tha sb khuch shi pr dimag kaam nhi kr rha tha..
Maine pucha ki kya tumhare ghr pr pta hai mere liye to usne kha ha meri sis ko pta hai uski 4 sis thi…to maine khaha to thick hai.bs itna bola or usne apni bike ki raftaar bada di or chala gya.maine socha ki pta nhi usne kya smjha ha ya na wo khush ho kr gya ya gussa kr .mujhe pta hi na chala.main bhi ghr aa gyi.next day SATURDAY tha meri chutti hoti thi colege mein to main ghr pr hi thi.
Phir main MONDAY ko college gyi or chutti main mujhe NITIN mila or mujhse kha ki tum Saturday ko kyo nhi aayi thi main tumhara wait kr rha tha to maine btaya ki off rhta hai.phir maine pucha ki tum bhi to us din aise chale gye maine to jaan hi nhi payi ki kya huya hai.tumto bina khuch khe chale gye ruk hi nhi to usne kha ki mere liye to bs tumhra thick hai khna hi kafi tha main to tumhare inhi shbdo k share apni puri jindgi bita skta hu.main to usko bs dekhe hi jaa rhi thi mujhe smjh nhi aa rha tha ki itna sb ho jane k baad bhi wo mujhe itna pyar krta hai.main bhut khush thi or wo bhi..pr ek baat mere man mein aksar aa jti thi khi wo mere papa se bdla lene k liye to ye sb nhi kr rha hai.kyo ki mere papa ne to kfi khuch kaha tha us din..
Khuch din k baad aakhir maine usse puch hi liya ki khi tum mujhse ya papa se bdl lene k liye mujhse pyar ka natak to nhi kr rhe ho kyoki unhone tumhe itna khuch kha or tum usk baad bhi mujhse pyar krte ho to wo hasne lga or bola kya kisi k khne pr pyaar khatam ho jta hai.main to tumhe jb se pyar krta hu jb tum 5th class mein thi.maine tumhe tbhi phli baar dekha tha or mujhe pyar ka p bhi nhi malum tha pr phir bhi tum mujhe acchi lgti thi.usne mujhse ek baat aisi boli ki wo mujhe aaj tk yad hai.usne kha ki KACCHA GHADA THA JO NISHAN PD GYA AAJ TK PADA HAI hai iska matlab ki choti umar mein jo pasand aa gya wo puri jindgi rhti hai.tum meri jindgi mein ek nishan ki tarah ho ab to mere shareer pr wo nishan pd gya hai nhi ja skta wo ab mere saath hi jyega.or rhi tumhare papa ki baat to wo bde hai agr gusse main unhone khuch kh diya to kya huya.waise bhi unhone khuch galat nhi kha main hi to tumhare aage piche lga tha.agr main unki jgah hota to main bhi yhi krta agr meri beti hoti.uski baate to mere dil mein utar gyi wo bilkul mere papa ki tarah baate krta tha .ek ldki ko hamesha aisa hi ldka accha lgta ai jo usk father ki tarah hota hai or NITiN aisa hi tha.maine dil se use apna pati bana liya tha or soch liya tha ki shadi usi se krungi.samy beet gya mera course bhi pura hone wla tha mere papa ne mere liye ldk dekhna bhi shuru kr diya tha pr mujhe to Nitin hi pasand tha.ek din maine apni mummy se pucha ki ye btao ki papa mere liye ldk dekh rhe hai pr mujhse nhi pucha agr mujhe koi pasand ho to.wo bilkul chup ho gyi or boli mujhe btao koun hai main baat krungi bs hamri cast mein hona chahiye.Hum log brahman family se hai.
Maine kha ha hai hamari cast ka.boli koun hai maine bta diya Nitin hai
Mammy janti thi uko boli ek hi colony k hai papa nhi manege.maine kha abhi boli ki cast or ab colony.?
Dusre din papa ne mujhse pucha ki wo kya krta hai to maine btaya ki wo egg(civil) se kr rhe hai to bole thick hai.
Ldka hamari cast ka hai
Dekhne mein accha hai
Study bhi shi hai…..
To main shadi kr dunga main khush ho gyi or maine nitin ko btaya or ye bhi kha ki apne ghr pr bta do.usne kha thick hai
Ab story mein nya twist aa gya uaki maa ne nitin se kha ki tum to MANGALI ho tumhari shadi to usi ldki se ho skti hai jo mangali ho….
Hamare yaha pr shadiya kundali mila kr hoti hai…
Ab kya hum log to pareshan ho gye socha sb to accha ho gya tha ab ye nyi pro….
Nitin ki maa ne kaha ki meri kundali le aayo hum dono ki kundali milwayenge…. hame to ye pta tha ki jb kundali samne aayegi to kya hona tha…
Main to nirash ho gyi thi pr nitin ne kha ki tum preshan mt ho sb accha hoga….
Kundali milayi gyi ….or mujhe aaj tk yakeen nhi hai ki main bhi MANGALI thi..kundali mil gyi.
Hum logo k khushi ka thikana na tha yakeen hi nhi ho rha tha ki sb accha ho gya.
29th JANUARY 2011 ko hamari shadi ho gyi .aaj shadi ko 5 saal ho gye hai hum log bahut acche se apni jindgi bita rhe hai
NITIN LOVES DEEPIKA
Sb bs yhi kahte hai ki JODIYA UPAR SE BAN KR AATI HAI”